This is my understanding, and I welcome input and corrections!
A coin wears from the highpoints, down. If you rub your finger over a coin, it will hit the top of the
rim, top of most of the letters in the
legend (unless they are "protected" by a higher spot that is fairly close, e.g., the crown of a
head on the obv sheltering that portion of the
legend), the highpoints on the
bust, etc.
You finger will not hit anything but the high points, or at least within a reasonable distance to them (your finger, of course, is a
bit malleable, so it could "wrap around" a letter in the
legend a little
bit, so it is technically affecting a
bit more than the high point).
A weak, or
soft strike, be it truly a
soft strike or just worn dies, tends to affect all the detail on the coin, not just in the highpoints.
So, imagine a worn coin in profile. On a well-struck coin with fresh dies, the letters raise from the flat surface at a potentially
sharp (near 90 deg) angle and are slowly degraded by contact. A
soft strike can sort of "soften" the angle between the letter and the
flan around it, sort of "rounding the corner" of that angle, if you will.
I imagine that telling the difference between wear and soft or
weak strike takes a gob of experience. I tend to look to see if detail that would not be explained by wear is somewhat missing (e.g., the metal from the
flan did not completely fill the die) and if so, then it is probably a
weak strike.
At least, that is what I believe to be true, and I
hope more experienced folks can confirm or correct what is at this point my opinion regarding the difference!
Mark