Hi PJM. I am afraid this reply will not be very satisfying. Lead is in my opinion the most difficult metal to deal with, as it is so reactive. A single artifact can have four or more different
types of corrosion, and anything you do to mitigate one
type can make the others worse. In addition, the corrosion often incorporates the surface details, so you can lose a lot if you clean it, even with a soft toothbrush, unless it is very loose dirt above a sound surface. A lot of my lead came from a seaside environment, so chloride is a problem. I will sometimes try to reduce the chloride with a brief soak in distilled water, sometimes with a very small amount of sodium bicarbonate to check any acidity, but even this can cause problems if other
types of corrosion are present, some of which need moisture to do their damage. I have also tried, on occasion, to apply a very small amount of mineral oil after soaking and drying, to keep the moisture out. I am not an expert or a chemical engineer, so hopefully others may weigh in. I try to avoid any cleaning of lead, unless there is obvious active corrosion. And I wash my
hands a lot. My understanding is that the salts of lead are more of a
hazard than the pure lead itself. Posting photos may
help in getting further advice.
Good luck!